" Imagine you are a beautiful castle, with thousands of rooms and long corridors. Each room in the castle is perfect and has a special gift. Each room represents a different aspect of you and it is an integral part of the whole castle perfectly. When you were kids, you explore cation inch of your castle, without shame and without judging. No fear, you have searched every room, looking for gems and its mystery. You accepted Love each room, be it a certain room, bedroom, bathroom or basement. Each and every room was unique. Your castle was full of light, love and wonder. Then one day, someone came to the castle and told that one of the rooms was imperfect, as undoubtedly it did not belong to your caste. We suggest that if you wanted to have a perfect castle, had to lock the door to that room. Because you wanted love and acceptance, you rushed to a lock.
With the passage of time, came increasingly more people to your castle. Everyone had their opinions about the rooms, which are twins and not liked. Slowly, you closed the door after door. Your lovely rooms were closed, they it was light, were left in darkness. He started a cycle.
Since then, for various reasons, increasingly have closed several doors. You closed doors because you were afraid, or because they thought that those rooms were too bold. You closed doors to rooms that were too conservative. You closed doors because other castles that you saw did not have a camera like yours. You closed doors because your religious leaders have told to stay away from certain quarters. You closed the door that did not match any company or your own ideal standards.
went back when your castle seemed endless and the future looked bright and wonderful. No more thinking of every room with the same love and admiration. Now, you wanted cameras disappear once you were proud. Try to find a way to get rid of these rooms, but they were part of the castle structure. After you closed the door to any room that you do not like, with the passage of time have completely forgotten that it exists. At first he did not realize what you do. It became a habit. As each express different messages about how it should look like a magnificent castle, it was much easier to listen to them, than to trust your inner voice - the one who loved the whole castle. The fact that you closed those rooms made you feel really safe. Soon, you wake up you live in a few small rooms. You learned how to lock the life and feel good doing this work. Many of us have so many locked rooms, I forgot that I was once a castle. I started to believe that there are only a small house with two rooms, which needs repair.
Now, imagine the castle as a place where you are hosting everything - good and bad - and that every issue that exists on the planet, there is within you. One of the rooms is love, another courage, another is an elegance and grace is. The number of rooms is endless. Creativity, femininity, honor, integrity, health, aggression, sex, power, shyness, anger, greed, frigidity, laziness, arrogance, disease and evil are rooms in your castle. Each room is an essential part of the structure and each room has a opposed to somewhere in your castle. Fortunately, we are never satisfied with being less than what we are able to be. Our discontent is what concerns us a reason to seek the lost rooms of our castle. We find the key towards our unique, open only when all rooms in the castle.
Castle is a metaphor that helps us understand the magnitude of who we are. Each of us possesses this inside or sacred. There is easy access, if we are ready and eager to see the totality of who we are. Most dntre we are frightened by what we find behind the doors of these rooms. So, instead of turning into an adventure that we find our hidden self - full of energy and surprise - the rooms continue to pretend does not exist. The cycle continues. But if you really want to change the direction your life should enter the castle and the little open every single door, you must explore the inner world and take back everything that you have assumed. You can not appreciate the greatness and you can not enjoy all the uniqueness of your life, your whole self than this. "
(Debbie Ford - The Dark Side of the seekers of light)
My conclusion: For a happy existence, and fulfilling full of light must accept us as we are, with good and bad. You have to be what we, without denying the less we like without us or judge us between us, to accept everything they are learning to others and find in ourselves what we like and we want to be, but to accept and that in November there are other parts that distresses us. We Are Who We Are, There Is No Need to Change That, There is only the Needle to accept it and embrace it, embrace your true self and Whole in order for you to Meet the right people and Achieve the right things for you. :)
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